Living a "Good on Paper" Life is a

Tale as Old as Time.

For decades, we have been taught to find our identities in a good relationship, confidently focus on a successful career, selflessly devote ourselves to our families, and seamlessly represent that we feel good because we look good, even though most humans are quietly struggling, secretly tallying their shortcomings, and silently suppressing our emotions... WHILE PRETENDING THAT THEY DON'T. 

In our effort to get it all "right,"

we continually live in tension because our brain gets stuck in the loop

of doing what we're "expected" to do

and constantly explaining away what we actually feel with logic or reason...

Numbing out by over-indulging.  Overeating. Over-drinking.

Overspending.  Over-scrolling.  Overworking.  Over-Consuming.

Over committing. Over __(you fill in the blank)__.

Or getting caught up in the avoidance trap by doing more for everyone else,

finding our validation in being useful, needed, or busy…

only to STILL often feel undervalued and underappreciated.

ALL OF THAT LEADS TO

melting down emotionally &

burning out physically

while being resistant or annoyed to prospects of needing "more healing."

I GET IT.

The problem is that most

healing work tends to focus on  

problems of the past.

The wounds of our younger selves.

A version of us who doesn't exist anymore.  

Because, technically, now WE KNOW BETTER. 

"I really don't see how highlighting that part of my life again makes a difference."

I hear you. 

Wound work is run on defeat, doubt, fear, and insecurities because

THAT'S WHAT A WOUND IS:

Negative Emotions and Unchallenged Thoughts

that are UNINTENTIONALLY stored

(aka suppressed) in the brain and the body.

Those experiences are the seeds of unconscious beliefs that still exist below the surface, even though we are older, wiser, and in a different place.

This is why the Library is different.

The library bridges the gap from

Awareness to Evolution 

in a way that

talk therapy, mindset coaching

& accountability/behavioral support CAN'T.

Logically Comprehending Life's Circumstances,

Having a Solid Routine of Great Habits

and Living in Genuine Fulfillment

are THREE Separate Things.

Hi, I am Nicole Herring, a certified NLP Practitioner. I help my clients ditch the good-on-paper life, initiate meaningful change, and evolve their relationship with themselves so that they can Live Life Differently, #IRL.

In 2017, I hit a wall:

I could no longer fake my smile.

"I had it all."

A good husband.  3 healthy kids.  A cozy house.

A good-on-paper life. 

...plus, a depleted body that was heavy with depression and a foggy, dysregulated brain full of

anxiety, fear & chronic self-loathing.

What started as a journey of wanting to love my motherhood as much as I love my kids became a painful realization that what I was actually seeking was to stop ABANDONING, BETRAYING & BERATING MYSELF.  What if I loved, supported & advocated for ME as well as I did for my boys?

HERE’S THE THING: seeking to live differently isn’t just about losing the fake, forced smile; it’s about Profoundly Evolving your Relationship with Yourself. It’s speaking the Language of Transformation so CREATING CHANGE Can Feel EFFORTLESS. It's uncovering the secret longings you’ve buried deep. It’s seeing and knowing yourself so clearly that you always know where to begin when you feel off track. 

It's going from OVERLY IMAGE CONCIOUS & Feeling Empty to Feeling Alive.  Feeling Joyful. Light. Effortless. Energetic. Excited. GENUINELY FULFILLED... IN REAL LIFE & on your own terms.

As a community, let's focus on evolving our relationship with ourselves and the initiation of our best chapter yet. 

Your Library currently has 3 completed modules

(with 2 more on the way) and will have

35+ easy-to-digest classes that focus on the

core information for doing three things:

Together, we will move through the 6 Steps of Lasting Transformation, aka Evolution:

Education, Reflection, Implementation, Integration, Evaluation & Celebration

The How to Live Life Differently Library comes with 

- 5 Modules: 35+ Education Lessons 

- Simple Application: Reflection Worksheets 

- Clear Actionable Steps: “How To” frameworks for Implementation

- Personal Feedback: Weekly support for Integration with recorded Q&A sessions 

- Supportive Community: private FB group for Safe Self-Evaluation & Celebration 

Library access is for 12 months, and the

Weekly Support will occur

mid-June through mid-November.

The 12 months of access is designed to

encourage program completion through

initiating action, integration support,

and sustainable progress month after month. 

Can you renew your access? Yes, of course! 

But the reality is,

I HOPE YOU DON'T!

The intention is that by the end of 12 months

of you taking action & receiving integration support,

that the content of this library will feel natural and like OLD news! 

It took me 7 years to piece together this process in my unique way, but I believe this library, paired with your commitment and our powerful community, will make an "empty & unfulfilled” life unrecognizable (in the best way!) in no time.  

I want people everywhere to feel empowered, profound, and unshakable so that everything they have learned can be passed down to the next generation!  

I’d love for you to speak the Language of Transformation EFFORTLESSLY and gladly refer this library to people who have been impacted & awed by your evolution.